Life is life, in it anything happens. Even the faithful, loving husband can unexpectedly fall in love with other woman. First he consoles conscience in arguments: "Well what to do, it the nature created me! The novel will end soon, the wife learns nothing, will not worry". But how to be in case the feeling to the mistress becomes stronger and stronger if she surely forces out the wife from the man's heart? Sooner or later day when the wife has to tell the unpleasant truth will come. How it is better to make it?
Instruction
1. Try not to bring the matter to a type situation: "Suddenly"! Believe, it will be too cruel even if your wife is guilty of cooling of feelings too. For any normal woman suddenly to learn that she has a competitor, a heavy shock. And if in addition the husband is going to leave to it. Business can end, at best, with the severe stress, in the worst – permanent disorder of health. Do not you want to be tormented with a remorse then?
2. Take measures in advance to that at the wife suspicions arose. If she is already puzzled with a thought whether you change it, purely psychologically the subsequent explanation will pass more simply. Be late more often usual, kind of on forgetfulness use spirits of the mistress. Any woman immediately will scent a smell of unfamiliar perfumery!
3. Respond to her inquiries and reproaches with affected indignation: yes that you and as such thought in general could come to your mindyour mind, you know that except you I have nobody! Having tried at the same time that justifications sounded very unconvincingly.
4. Begin to show discontent, fault-finding: like, also you, expensive, not very well, and in the house prepare an eternal disorder. It will even more strengthen the wife in a thought that you had object for comparison, and it – alas! – not in its advantage.
5. And, at last, admit. At the same time try to undertake all fault for a gap, having sustained the speech in the sense that you are simply unworthy such wonderful woman as your wife. To it it will be all the same bad, but the shock nevertheless will turn out not such strong what could be.
6. Before leaving the wife to the mistress, think not three, but thirty three times! As there are no guarantees to the fact that you do not make a fatal, inexcusable flaw. On this case, try to leave with the wife most peacefully, quietly. Who knows whether you should come back, with a request for forgiveness?