Each girl responds to proposal at least once in the life. It would seem, possible answers only two: yes or no. But in reality everything is much more difficult, and thousands of pros and cons torment with the ponderability.
Instruction
1. You do not hurry to make the decision. The love is fine feeling, udivitelyy and magic. The person in love can be allocated without problems from crowd - he shines eyes, he smiles as though he shines from within. And, of course, nobody will be able to force not to have himself such remarkable feelings. And life without them would be boring. If the true love, then over time it does not vanish anywhere, and just changes, becomes quieter and strong. Therefore it is not necessary to hurry, there are no reasons at once to run in the REGISTRY OFFICE. In the modern world there is a concept of a civil marriage. Perhaps to live in it not the really right decision is a lot of years - are it seems married, and it seems and is not present. But to start family life - quite good practice. Everyday family life very much differs from a rose and candy stage. Often happens so that time strengthens your relations.
2. But also also you do not hurry to refuse. Understand that it is not obligatory to adore the person with whom you will construct strong family madly, sometimes there is enough sympathy. Very many couples build the relations on respect and mutual understanding and at them it remarkably turns out. In this case feelings will not prevent to approach you a marriage from the reasonable party. Whether your candidate will like to consider children whether he will be a good and faithful husband who is able to appreciate a cosiness whether will be able financially to provide family.
3. And, the main thing, listen to the inner voice. He will prompt to you that there is a strong wish to answer: yes or no. Unfortunately, it is impossible to make the exact forecast for many years. Sometimes the most ridiculous, at first sight, couples live many years in strong marriage. And those who, apparently, suit very one another run up later few years. Therefore weigh everything pros and cons, make the firm decision and begin to build new family or, on the contrary, look for further the soulmate.