The relations are a big work. Even the happiest couples make many efforts to maintain good relations. If you in couple had a difficult stage, it is necessary to try that your relations entered the positive course again. If restoration of the relations – a mutual priority, you can work together on it to start with a clean slate and again to be happy together.
- Find time each other. Among work of all everyday difficulties the people lose touch with the couple even if see every day. Your relations will become more vulnerable if you feel like rather flatmates, than couple. It can be corrected, giving every day several minutes to learn each other, how was your day, regularly planning visits of restaurant or cinema, or having called during the day just to say hello.
- Listen to each other. Intensive communication – a basis of the healthy relations. If to listen as your partner spent day or that disturbs him, he will understand that to you not all the same what occurs in his life.
- Show to each other respect. To impolitely upset the partner, to refuse constantly the planned actions or to behave so that to lower his self-assessment. Together with the healthy relations the people try to make each other happy and to rejoice.
- Release the past. If your partner hurt you in the past, it is necessary to forgive him. If you want to remain with it, it is necessary to find a way to understand all misunderstanding between you then to forget about them. It is impossible to restore a basis of the healthy relations if you still worry concerning troubles in the past.
- Try to change those nuances which are not pleasant to you in the relations together with the partner. If you in the past had quarrels because he did not want to help about the house, agree that he carried out some household chores and that you felt that it does something too. Or, if in the past you were unhappy because you never did anything cheerful together, plan regular joint actions.