How to restore the relations in family for winter vacation

How to restore the relations in family for winter vacation

New Year's vacation – great time for restoration and strengthening of the family relations. There is an opportunity to stay all together, to resolve long ago the postponed issues and as result to become the close friend to the friend.

Remember the past

At the end of the expiring year we remember what it was that was good what was reached. "Fuel" which fills us with new forces gives thoughts of the best moments. That every time to return to the past, it is possible to use family photos. Select all family the best photos in a year: different mood, looks, places and seasons. Make a collage or a temporary tape. That what inspires you and napityvat by forces was before eyes.

Execute what was promised long ago

How many times in a year did you promise the child as soon as there is time, to go with it to aquapark, in a zoo or to write down it in robotics circle? If to gather everything, then the whole mountain will turn out. Outstanding promises undermine confidence. The leaf will help to counterbalance situation with desires. Ask members of household to write all that they promised to make and if it is still relevant, try to realize.

Try new

Monotonous rate of life dulls emotions, days off and holidays become predictable. Not to "sour" and get new bright emotions, be engaged in all family in something that was not done earlier. Discuss, than you would like to be engaged, but was not enough for this time in any way. Collect the ideas from each member of the family, estimate them and start actions. It not only will unite your family, but also will present vital energy.

Communicate

Communication with the family is what there is never enough time in circulation of life for. Long vacation gives the fine chance to communicate fully to close people, but not to be thrown by words between times. Besides each of us wants that it not only was heard, but also listened. Therefore organize tea drinking in the bosom of the family, without TV, phones and books. Discuss what occurred in a day, or just stir on interesting subjects. Show interest in the interlocutor, ask questions.

Adopt experience

How many times did you want to write down the recipe of mother's pie or to learn more detailed history of family from the grandmother? All it seems to you that there is time and all of you will be in time. But nevertheless work and life continue to absorb time. Find time for family traditions on vacation. Write down, at last, the recipe of family pie. Ask grandmothers and grandfathers to tell children's memoirs on a dictophone. Shoot the video about the family. Keep it and report to the next generation.

You tell thanks

Not in each family is got to thank for something good. And sometimes each of members of household so lacks recognition of their merits. Simple "Thanks", can lighten the mood and let know that the person and his contribution to family life is appreciated. Get for all winter vacation to "Bank of thanks". Let everyone write what it is grateful for. For example: "Thanks to mother for a tasty lunch", "Thanks to the daughter for the help in cleaning on the house". At the end of vacation open a jar and read. It will inspire you and "Thanks" will become a family, kind habit.

Author: «MirrorInfo» Dream Team


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