If the relations are destroyed, it is possible to try to restore them. For this purpose great desire, great patience and a fair share of wisdom will be required, but if the man is really dear to you, you will cope.
Instruction
1. Remember that if the man packs suitcases, so the atmosphere in family does not suit him. Responsibility for creation of the sincere relations entirely lies on the woman. Therefore it is not necessary to blame it for all sins. You are guilty too. It is right even in case the husband was going to leave to the mistress. All the same the lack of the kind atmosphere in family is the reason. Otherwise he would not go to seek elsewhere what it lacks the house. The first that you have to make – to realize that on you responsibility for all events lies.
2. Having realized it, it is very easy to implement clause second. Namely to cease to row, saw, accuse and reproach the man with all misfortunes. Because of it there is a majority of problems. What man will want to come back there where he is abused and humiliated? It is natural when the woman behaves thus, she thinks not of the husband, and of the offenses. Perhaps, they seem really reasonable. But if business reached that the relations need to be restored, it is necessary to forget and think of offenses how to return the atmosphere of love to your family.
3. From here Paragraph third follows – not to abuse, and to praise. All the same, for what. For the fact that the garbage took out that descended behind bread. Even for the fact that woke up in time it is possible to praise too! You, probably, and noticed more than once what magic action is made by praises. If to tell them it is sincere, the person will feel wings behind the back. So give more often this feeling to your man! For certain he is not spoiled by compliments of you.
4. Talk to your soulmate more often, do it sincerely and with trust. The majority of misunderstanding in couple happens because that the man does something not how the woman considers, and in reply she becomes isolated offended. And if to sit down and understand, you will understand that he made so not to salt, and just because he in a different way thinks and works. The man can even not guess that his some action offends you. Therefore you need to explain every time to it that was not pleasant to you. And to do it in quiet, friendly chat. Take yourself for the rule to talk to the man as the best friend, and you are surprised how quickly happiness and love will return to your relations.