Happens so that the man and the woman love each other, but at them outlook models do not coincide. Compromise does not manage to be reached. The conflict develops into a quarrel or even comes to an end with parting. A little later the woman begins to be sorry about it and wants to return the beloved as soon as possible. What to do to return darling?
Instruction
1. Calm down, stop to worry. Try to reach internal harmony. In the nervous and excited fortune to return darling it will not be come into. Nervousness in this situation – your enemy. Your internal tension will be transferred to the man, and he will not go for contact with you. Negative emotions will prevent to renew the relations with the beloved. Therefore adjust yourself on the fact that you will surely return darling.
2. Think of the relations with darling, of the manner of communication with it. If it left, so something was not pleasant to it in you. Means, your behavior did not seem to it harmonious. Try to understand what mistakes you made at communication with the man and as they can be corrected. Be self-critical, it will help to find all your defects. To return the beloved? it will be necessary to work on itself and to change.
3. Be ready to active actions. But it does not mean that it is necessary to bother the man, constantly to call him, to watch for him after work. Such persistence will result in the return results. The man will begin to hide from you and to avoid. It is necessary to work delicately and gradually, otherwise darling can be frightened of your pressure.
4. Remember why this man got acquainted with you and fell in love with you. What lines and qualities attracted him? And why he decided to leave? Try to become internally again such what you were at the time of acquaintance to this man. Perhaps, earlier you were an interesting interlocutor, and now wallowed in life? Or maybe, earlier you were a smart woman, and now do not take off a dressing gown? Think why the man grew cold to you. What is not enough for him in you now?
5. Make the action plan taking into account the last mistakes. Do not try to make everything for the shortest term. The man needs to give a little time that he learned to appreciate you again.
6. Ask for the help the psychologist. The qualified specialist will help to analyze your mistakes. He will give a practical advice which will help to return darling and to renew the relations. But keep in mind that you should act.