How to return native and darling is the first thought which visits most of women after break in relations or a quarrel. Of course, each gap has the reasons therefore and it is necessary to approach the solution of a question individually.
Instruction
1. If your acts were the reason of leaving of darling, then it is necessary to reconsider the relation to the incident urgently. Remember how you behaved recently that did not suit in you your man. If you were too jealous or persuasive, controlled each its step, did not allow to meet friends, then who will sustain it. If there is an opportunity, talk over with darling. Tell that change the behavior, you will not limit its freedom. After reconciliation strictly keep the promise. The more you will provide freedoms to the beloved, the he will be closer to you. Try not to torment him with the suspiciousness. Do not arrange interrogations as he carried out the working day. If the man wants, he will tell you. Do not look in its phone and the notebook at all, do not read its mail.
2. Somehow to appease the jealousy, be engaged in business. If before you stayed at home, try to find work. So you will constantly not think of darling and to endlessly keep ringing to him. Penetrate into a new field of activity, and in the evening at a meeting tell that new was learned as promoted in the profession. It will lift you in his eyes. You will notice how he with respect and tenderness will look at you and to rejoice to your progress.
3. If it is not you, and that the young man fell in love with another it is worth applying several other means here.
4. Do not try to beg to return him. You will only humiliate with it yourself in his eyes. Do not start looking for its new passion and to make scandals. Do not run to it for work in a hysterics. All this will make impossible its return to you.
5. At first study a situation. Try to find out what the new beloved is. Consider her as it looks that carries as behaves. And now compare to yourself. Find out what you lose in, and improve situation.
6. Do not stipulate it in a circle of mutual friends and his relatives. On the contrary, you speak about it so that they had only best impressions about you. You say that you always admired his mind and sense of humour. Or other qualities suitable it. These words will surely transfer to it.
7. If he shortly tries to take a step to reconciliation, do not arrange rough manifestations of feelings. Accept everything quietly and with advantage. So he will feel the fault more and will do everything it is to smooth down last mistakes rather.