At approach of teenage age many children seek to separate from parents. Someone begins to earn additionally in free time to prove everything that it is already adult. And someone chooses other way – leaves the house and does not appear for day there.
Instruction
1. Initially that the child spends much time on the street there is nothing terrible. Many parents are inclined to exaggerate and begin to consider that the son got out of hand, there is no house and became the lost person if in the evenings he drives with friends in soccer instead of grandly spending time in the bosom of the family. Reconcile to the fact that now your child needs more freedom.
2. However also the fact that your child is outdoors busy not with harmless entertainments is possible. Young people for the first time try cigarettes, alcohol and drugs at teenage age, trying to prove each other the independence. It is senseless to rush on the child with threats, you are guilty of it. And now you should restore step by step trusting relationship with the son to return the teenager to family. If you press, shout and lock the young man of the house, it will also not bring any result. Words – beliefs, requests, reasonable arguments can only be your weapon.
3. In order that the child came back home, there it has to be interesting to him. Think what is not enough for your grown-up child in your company that he seeks elsewhere. Perhaps, he chases new feelings. Suggest to make a joint trip to ski resort (but do not insist at all). It seems to you that friends replace to it family? Remember when you told the last time with the child, listened to his problems, gave advice.
4. Many young people leave family to live with the beloved. It can happen also at improper, according to parents, age, and to the improper person. Even if it seems to you that your child makes a terrible mistake, allow it to affect the discretion. In your forces only to try to improve the relations with the child's elect not to lose sight of young people finally. If you were right, and the teenager really was mistaken, having left the house, he will return to you.