Family routine, monotony, infinite efforts - all this is capable to influence the relations between spouses negatively. Absorbed by house efforts, child care, the woman herself sometimes does not notice how her world becomes confined by apartment borders. Bethinks only when life begins to seem empty and sad, and about former ardent love for the husband there is one reminiscence. And the husband more often hints: I once fell in love not with such woman. In a word, marriage appears on the verge of disintegration.
Instruction
1. First of all remember the beginning of your novel. As the mutual feeling as it got stronger arose, turning into true love, and from the first shy sparkle the fire of hot passion inflamed. Think: and all of you the same woman, and your spouse – the same man. Yes, it is impossible to return the past, but who told that it is impossible to change the present? All in your hands, it is necessary to show desire and persistence only.
2. You were "jammed" by life? Do not you have enough time to watch itself? Means, give to house efforts only the most necessary minimum of time. It is not obligatory to direct at all, for example, all day long purity, it is quite possible to be limited to clear-out of times a week. You remember: you, first of all, woman. If you look good – at you, at least, the mood will improve, the self-assessment will raise. And it is absolutely necessary in order that "new eyes" to look at own husband. And he for certain will not disregard the changes which happened to the wife.
3. Sometimes it is very useful to forget at least for a while about household chores. If there is an opportunity to attach somewhere children (for example, the grandmother), arrange yourself with the husband joint rest. Go to a foreign voyage or to a backpacking as in student's youth. New impressions, acquaintances, the beautiful nature - all this will work in the most salutary way on you. You will feel at once that family life is not boring at all, and your husband – very interesting man.
4. If you at heart the reserved, timid woman besides who is brought up in Puritan traditions, then intimate relations with the husband hardly give you pleasure. And it is very serious reason for cooling. Overcome yourself, try to be stirred up, show an initiative. Inspire in yourself: in a bed with darling it is possible to behave, somehow, in it there is nothing shameful, unseemly. Do not hesitate to talk frankly to the husband on this subject, if necessary read books on technology of sex. The result will not keep itself waiting long!