People quite often leave. Sometimes parting happens quietly and at the initiative of both parties. And happens so that you left somehow badly, incorrectly. Perhaps, the girl threw you. Or you are her. But anyway, you want to return her and do not know what to begin with. In this case act according to the instruction provided below.
Instruction
1. For a start release all the emotions outside. For certain if you want to return the girl, then she a lot of things means to you. Perhaps, you even love her, very much love, so, is very painful to you. Well, let all your pain will come to light. Be not afraid to cry if there is a wish to cry, be not afraid to shout if there is a wish to shout. Perhaps, you want to smoke or get drunk? Make it.
2. If you need to be uttered, then call the best friend and if you do not want to share with anybody the pain, then be just uttered in emptiness. Write your story on paper and burn. The main thing – you do not keep anything in yourself.
3. Spend couple of days for such here release of steam, and then be engaged in some hard physical activity. Arrange repair if you want, or go to gym. The main thing that you were tired to a limit and, going to bed, at once filled up and did not think of anything. In such mode it is worth spending few weeks.
4. And now, when you calmed down a little, just sit down and properly consider everything. Remember the relations and estimate them sensibly, without emotions. Remember everything - not only good, but also bad.
5. Try to understand yourself and to understand why it turned out so that you left. Perhaps, you just were tired from each other, but now, having understood as strongly you are necessary each other, have already a rest and can try to start everything anew.
6. You do not say to the girl at all that you want to return her. Do not complain her and be not humiliated before her. Do not lose the advantage, to a rag the girl will definitely not want to come back. Through some time begin to communicate with it, come into friendly contact, but you do not say frankly that you had no objection to begin everything with the beginning.
7. For a start just appoint by it date and the meeting place to talk. Not about the relations, and on some absolutely abstract subjects. Let the girl will start over again trusting you. If your relations were serious and long, then so just feelings will not be erased from heart.
8. At a well-chosen moment hint the girl that you not against to start everything anew. Perhaps, It is necessary to tellIt is necessary to tell that you looked for someone another who would be better, but did not find. Tell that all these others – nothing in comparison with it. State to it as strongly it is expensive to you. Most likely, she will want to return to you. Good luck to you and love! Do not lose close people.