To leave offensively and bitterly the person whom sincerely you love. Young and inexperienced young people cannot often cope with the character and break off the relations because of a trifle or misunderstanding. Both suffer then, but pride does not allow to take the first step to reconciliation.
Instruction
1. You have to try to return the girl, she waits from you for active actions and acts. Do not listen to the advice of the friends which will recommend to you to forget her and to find to itself about ten more fans. If your feelings are strong, it is impossible to belong to them in the least. Thus it is possible to depreciate all that light and warm that is in life.
2. Do not try to cause jealousy of the girl counting on the fact that it, having looked at your flirtation with other young persons, will rush to return you. Usually, working thus, the guy tries to obtain only that his darling is approved in the decision to leave it. You have to convince her of the love and readiness to meet halfway, but not of ability to create novels on the party.
3. Analyze your relations, find out sources of your quarrels. Both of you are for certain guilty of a gap, but it is possible to correct current situation - it is necessary to inform the young person of your conclusions only. Ask the girl about a meeting. Talk quietly, without raising the voice and without accusing of anything.
4. On an appointment logically and just state the thoughts concerning your relations, express readiness to change in order that both of you felt only the joy and happiness of communication with each other. Think together of the future whether you see an opportunity to cast in the lot. Girls usually rejoice when their guys begin to make plans for joint life.
5. Ask it to change a little too the relation to your shortcomings, to be more tolerant. Together you will be able to make each other better, and life in separation from darling will only aggravate all your defects. Attentively listen to each other, try to understand and forgive mistakes and misses.
6. If both of you have explosive characters, agree not to take splashes in emotions too seriously. It is possible to choose certain conditional words or gestures to signal to darling that it is time to stop swearing. Therefore when in the middle of the quarrel you gently embrace the girl and you will kiss her, she has to understand that the time for love came!