The relations between the guy and the girl are often filled with doubts and sometimes unfair charges. All this finally can lead to a gap. If you want to return the girl, it is necessary to change most and to look in a new way at your relations.
1. Before trying to restore the relations with the girl, change yourself. Remember what prevented your communication, perhaps, your girl often complained that you found for it not enough time. Ask her girlfriends, maybe, they will tell you what negative sides you should reconsider in yourself. Work over the emotional state. Show to the girl that you are an owner of own life, they love self-sufficient and not dependent men.
2. Girls most of all like independent and cheerful guys who are able to have fun. If after parting you feel broken, you should work much over yourself. Stop to be jealous. Showing to the girl the jealousy, you involuntarily say to her that you want to control it. Nobody loves control over himself, focus on trust in your relations. Do not show the dejectedness if you are in it. Even if to you it is very bad, surround yourself with friends and relatives, try to find a positive in everything. Do not hope to return the girl, having retired into oneself and expecting that everything will be resolved by itself. If you have no sense of humour, work over it. The playfulness and humour in the relations very much bring together people. You joke in the company of the friends more often, look you are successful in what jokes most of all. You learn to laugh at yourself.
3. After a gap in your relations leave the girl for some time alone, both of you need to think of the event. Stop any contacts with it for several days or even weeks. So you not only will give it time to calm down and to anew overestimate your relations, but also will show it the independence, ability to quietly endure troubles, without needing assistance.
4. Apologize to it. Apologies after partings practically always in the nature of things. Having asked for it forgiveness, you show that are capable to reject own ego and to recognize the mistakes. Send it flowers, write the letter, at last, meet it in the most comfortable for it the place, tell it about how strongly you endure parting, tell that you recognize the mistakes and are ready to be responsible for them. Restoration of the spoiled relations can take some time. You need to show to the girl that she can trust you. Make some good business for the girl, without expecting at the same time something in exchange. You spend much time with her, act surely, the girl has to see your playful mood.
5. Having apologized and having restored trust to itself, you can tell the girl that you want to return her. Undertake responsibility for restoration of the relations, you do not say to the girl that she could take the first step. The girl has to know about all the changes which happened in you lately, say that became more patient and now know about the majority of own shortcomings. Convince her that you will be able to overcome together all troubles and to restore the relations. You remember why at the time you left and you study on own mistakes.