It is not so simple to reconcile to parting. Until recently you felt that in your life there is a love, tenderness, care, and every day was filled with feeling of the fairy tale. And today he told: "It is time for us to leave", and you are not ready to such turn. It is necessary to puzzle over how to return the guy.
Instruction
1. And whether costs? The first question which himself needs to set: and whether costs? Why to stick together the broken cup on which all the same there will be traces of cracks. Sort out the motives: whether really you want to return the relations – more true, to construct new, having used the best efforts and having considered mistakes, having completely forgiven the partner and having apologized most. Or it just the movement on inertia, fear to lose a habitual way of life. Or – that it is even worse – desire to revenge (to return that then to throw the offender). In that case do not spend force for enhancement of a negative in the world, register in fight better and you go to a rock concert to splash out aggression.
2. Why it is so? Do not you really guess the gap reason at all? And if to rummage? People do not make such serious decisions after the ordinary quarrel. Or too many quarrels began to be considered as a commonplace. Think where you did not concede, were not counted with his desires, deceived, were too rough. Only it is necessary to analyze it with the cold head and at once to accept as the fact, without reproaching itself. About a situation when the man really vanishes without explanations, we will hold back. Make sure that all valuable in the house on the place, and forget about it. The person who is not able to have a talk with the woman is unworthy your experiences.
3. Typical to oshibkipotakat to the man in everything, including in the erotic plan. The former partner willingly will accept from you all sexual offers, but the full-fledged relations on it not to construct. You need to win respect, but not reputation of the girl with which all is possible. All the time allegedly accidental to catch sight to it, to fill up with love letters and gifts as a sign of apologies. Right after parting you for it are associated with negative experiences. It needs to cool down and stay alone with the feelings and to you too. To fall into despair, to think only of it, to live past. The love period when we are ready to be dissolved in dear person, is rapid. At more mature stage of the relations there is a wish to see near himself the full-fledged personality. How will the guy notice your identity, strength of mind, mind, charm when you forgot about all this for the sake of memories of it?