It is much more difficult to restore the relations with the guy who threw you, than to tie new. If you really want to return him, you need to think well over what went not so what mistakes you made, to work on yourself and to stock up with patience.
Take your time
If you constantly are near the ex-boyfriend, try to find a way to return it right after he threw you, it is difficult to you to make it. Will not you be able soberly to assess a situation and to answer a question what went not so? There is no need to ignore it, but you should not be imposed with a talk about your relations. Let's themselves a little time calm down, distract. So you will be less prejudiced to the reasons of the incident and will be able to understand the feelings. Besides, having stopped for a while communication, perhaps, you will force it to think of yourself.
What forced it to throw you?
Before trying to return the guy, it is necessary to define what led to your parting. Carry out introspection whether you were too whimsical, whether you paid it enough attention, whether you to it gave reasons for jealousy. Make the list of what could lead to the fact that the guy threw you. This list has to contain only what really is controlled by you.
Change
Having defined the list of the possible reasons, you do not hurry to call the guy with explanations. Only real actions will show to the guy that you changed. First of all you need to find self-confidence again. Make what can give you confidence and will force you to feel better. For example, change a hairstyle, change style of the clothes. Make everything again to feel comfortable, fall in love with yourself.
Do not become reserved
You will not be able to return the ex-boyfriend if you forget about all the affairs and will constantly grieve for him. The guy has to see that you are plunged into own cares, you continue to study or work actively, you try to improve yourself. You spend time with the friends more often, they will help to introduce a new view on your relations.
If you are in one company, do not consider, to begin to speak kind of with it. You speak with people around, so you will be able to pass to a conversation with each other.
Behave correctly at its presence
If you together are visiting mutual friends or just in one company, try to be attractive and well-mannered. Be elegant, put on as that is demanded by a situation, but try not to resemble the teenager. Talking to people, you do not pass to long monologues, show that you are able to listen to others. Smile more often, show former that you are happy. Your ex-boyfriend will surely notice and will estimate it.
Do not pretend to be in the feelings. You have to derive true pleasure from communication with people and from forwarding time with them.
Take a step on a meeting
After you understand the reasons of parting and will carry out work on yourself, you will need to tell it about the feelings again. Perhaps to make it it will be difficult, but if you want to return the guy, it is necessary to make it. Choose the place for a meeting with it when it is in good mood. If you were not right, ask for it forgiveness, you speak at the same time specifically, be not limited to the general words. Be honest before it and tell that you want to begin all over again. Further try not to repeat last mistakes, be oneself and do not pretend to be. At the same time do not think constantly over that, not to do much harm kind of to the relations again - so you will not be able to focus on the present.