In the relations of people often there are crises. Someone tries to overcome them, and someone prefers to leave. If your guy from the second category, it is necessary to learn to keep love for two at once.
Instruction
1. If in your relations there was a crisis, and the guy decided that you should leave, do not worry too strongly. Most often feelings can be returned. Of course, on it a certain amount of time and your energy will be required, but after overcoming such situation your feelings will become even stronger and stronger. The first and most important governed – do not make scandals and quarrels. Because of them the relations can end for ever. Quietly discuss current situation.
2. You have two ways to return the relations. The first – always to be near it, the second – to grant a respite then to renew your feelings. Every way has both the shortcomings, and the advantages. To solve only to you what of them should be applied.
3. If you decided to try the first option, explain to the young man that you very much got used to his society and at first it will be very difficult for you without it. Offer it friendship, communication without any hint on love. It is unlikely your guy will refuse to you.
4. Now you need to prove that you are necessary to it as the woman and as darling. Try to become for it irreplaceable: solve its small problems, give advice. It will be quite good to come to it home to clean up or make food. Your meetings have to become regular, but, of course, you should not behave as the thrown girlfriend. Become it the accomplice, the ally, the faithful partner. And after a while the young man realizes that you are necessary to him not only in this role.
5. But on this understanding a lot of time can leave. To accelerate process, cause his jealousy. For example, report that somebody offered you the serious relations or even a marriage. Ask it as it is better for you to arrive. But only the guy has to understand that between you and your invented gentleman there were no relations yet. Most likely, the young man will suggest you to renew your love because of fear you to lose.
6. If you decided to go on the second way, for a while stop any contacts with your ex-boyfriend. You will need to wait 2-4 weeks. During this time make yourself even more ideally. Be engaged in the appearance and character. Before the next meeting the young man has to be pleasantly surprised with changes which happened in you.
7. Arrange an unexpected meeting with it. For this purpose it is necessary to happen more often in those places which he visits. Communication has to be pleasant and cheerful, do not reproach it, do not cause in it rage and rage. On the contrary, tell how a lot of good occurred at you in life, and suggest to meet somehow once again. And during the second meeting try to lead it to a thought that you need to begin all over again. Perhaps, the guy will understand it far not at once. Therefore be not upset, and try to obtain a repeated meeting.