Break in relations never is easy, especially for women. There is a feeling of uncertainty and emptiness. Some girls remain for a long time are in love with the guys and all seek to return back. Having changed behavior, it is possible to achieve very much. Analyze the mistakes, revise the principles, then you will have a real chance to return back the guy.
1. Assess a situation and understand for yourself what forced you to break up with the guy or what forced it to leave you. The parting reason – an important point for restoration of the relations. If the reason was serious and offensive for one of you, for example, deception, treason, humiliation, well think before taking any further actions.
2. Guys throw if something ceases suit them in the relations or in the girl. Try to return to that girl with whom he fell in love right at the beginning. However it is an extra reason to think and whether he loved you really, or he was in love with that image that you for it first created. You did not stand still, your personality developed and changed, and if it cannot accept you such what you became, then, perhaps, together at all it is not fated to be.
3. It is possible to return the guy, continuing to communicate with mutual friends. Anyway you will constantly face in the general company, you should support easy communication, and at some point feelings can flash again. At the same time you should not tell about the ideas and plans to mutual friends, to share with them experiences, to ask for help not to break a course of nature and cyclic return of the relations with the ex-boyfriend.
4. If between you warm friendly communication remained, just speak with the ex-boyfriend by phone or behind a coffee cup. Let him know how badly you feel as you worry and suffer that your feelings did not die away. Perhaps, you will be given one more chance. Be extremely honest with the guy - it is very much appreciated and causes trust. It is desirable to ask what went not so in the relations and that it is necessary to correct in behavior.
5. And, at last, internally reconcile to your gap. It means that you have to be ready to release the guy. When the relations come to an end, and the woman refuses to release the second half, it sends very clear signal of despair and suffering. It is quite humiliating for it. Try to calm down, behave exactly, easily and not to state complete dependence from the ex-boyfriend and readiness to infinitely wait for the second chance. Instead you keep up head, accept a gap and wish it all the best. If he still has strong feelings to you, he pretty fast will express fears that the relations really ended forever, and the first will show an initiative.