Still quite recently you had fine relations, but suddenly something happened, you swore and as a result divorced. But heart is not ready to be measured with it. You want to restore former happiness and forever to change a situation. What to do in this situation? How to return the husband after the divorce?
Instruction
1. Understand the reason of its leaving. Without it it will be very difficult to return the husband. Soberly look at a situation: can be, it after all will return, but if you continue to behave also, then the chance of a new divorce is high. Refuse former behavior, find suitable model of actions which will suit both of you.
2. Change behavior. After all defects are of you found and eliminated, it is necessary to pass to change of an image. For example, if you often abused it on trifles, then choose model of the kind and lovely girl which always supports the elect. It is very important to change. Ask girlfriends to tell you about as far as your transformations were successful.
3. Organize a meeting. There are two options: or you will happen, or will organize a meeting independently. Surely specify in the second case that you are not going to swear or arrange any dismantling. Just you want to talk and thank for everything that between you was.
4. Lead a discussion correctly. You speak quietly and quietly, you remember the new image. The man himself will finish drawing an image which will suit it completely in the head. You should not change or try to mislead him. Do not forget to tell him that are grateful for the relations, but do not devote to this subject much time. After you feel that tension between you disappeared, finish a meeting.
5. Keep the new image. The temptation will be very high to break and again to return to old behavior model, but you need to behave. Do you want to keep the relations?
6. Organize new meetings. Try to behave as well as at the beginning of the relations. It will force it to remember former times and to remember for what he fell in love with you. Do not dare to be angry. You speak about it, about its plans and affairs more.
7. Usually the man himself declares the desire to return to marriage. If all of you made correctly, this moment will come sooner or later. If the man cannot make up the mind to this step, try to hint obviously. In most cases this strategy works.