Gap between spouses – a strong emotional shock for both parties. When the man leaves to another, apparently, that the world failed. For the woman it is important to understand that it not so. Once she becomes stronger, and the gone on a spree husband is ready to return.
1. The gap painfully is reflected in the woman's self-assessment even if the spouse was not hotly loved. She feels like the loser, family which, appear, was started forever, it was the failure enterprise. In this situation the main thing not to blame itself for a gap. The man preferred another? It does not mean that you cost nothing.
2. To shame the husband, to throw him with messages with hysterical requirements to come back home, threaten with the ban on communication with the general children – occupations useless. You do not call him in the middle of the night in hope that he, at last, will think again and will throw the new passion. It you only anger him.
3. You have time to correct a situation. Did you devote yourself only to cares of family? Now be engaged in the appearance, health, replace clothes, update a hairstyle. These simple maneuvers wonderfully cure of an inferiority complex.
4. To drown grief in wine, to be let in hellbenders, to nourish idea of revenge to a razluchnitsa is not so effective measures, but attempts to dull mental anguish. You endure the most serious stress with which it is not simple to cope alone. Consult to the psychologist. He will not return the husband back, but will save from thoughts that life is over.
5. Your task is to accept the fact that the husband left and not to cease to love itself. Let him know that you do not intend to bury yourself within four walls, expecting him return. Leave a door open. If you are really ready to accept it back, tell that it can return if wants, but do not beg him to make it.
6. How it was difficult, do not become reserved. Communicate with people, get out to parties, do not throw a favourite hobby. First positive emotions will be weak, especially, if you got used to spend leisure-time together with the husband. But over time you will feel considerable simplification.
7. Coquet with other men! Let you be not ready to the new relations yet, but it is very pleasant to feel beautiful and desired. Make to yourself gifts. Go to a travel, let for couple of days to the neighboring city. The husband cannot find you at home? Well, it is its difficulties.
8. It appears, it is not terrible to live alone at all, and in places it is even pleasant. You anew created yourself – beautiful and desired, the run-away husband will be able to notice it. Be sure, mutual friends will tell him about your progress. He left the wife to whom got used, and now before it absolutely other woman. Are sure that are ready to prefer it to the new gentleman?