When the family faces treason, not to do without pain and experiences. Very often the woman endures leaving of the husband to the mistress so strongly that she wants only one: to return it by all means. Sometimes it is much simpler, than it seems. However you have to remember that your relations any more will never be former.
Instruction
1. Assess a situation. If it is about a fleeting affair, it is easy for them to put an end, all advantages on your party. However quite often there are cases when the married man meets another woman and understands that with it he wants to be always. Attempts of the wife to return him can be crowned with success, but will hardly bring happiness in family.
2. Keep calm. If all of you decided to return to family of the darling, a tear, hysterics and scandals will only aggravate situation. You can cry alone, but at the spouse of it you should not do. However, ostentatious fun also to anything. You have to show readiness for constructive dialogue, but not to the exhausting showdowns.
3. Do not show to the spouse that you want to return him. Show that you worry, and its treason for you is painful and painful, but at the same time your life did not stop, the world did not fail around. Be not persuasive at all, you do not call and do not track down. Try to excite interest, respect and desire to return most in the husband.
4. If to you the famous person of the mistress, collect the minimum information on it. You should not go too far and find out all smallest details, they to you precisely to anything. However the nobility with whom you deal, will hardly be superfluous.
5. Put emphasis on the pleasant moments of the past. Honeymoon, trips to the sea, period of courtings, ridiculous situations: you can sometimes remember all this and as if accidentally. Try to make it when the spouse in good mood.
6. Change image, but it is not cardinal. Make an interesting hairstyle, update clothes, surely get rid of old home clothing and get new beautiful things. Similar changes will give you self-confidence and will force the husband to look at you differently.