Parting with the man – the tragedy almost for all women. Someone endures it and starts everything with a clean slate, but after all the relations want to return the majority. Perhaps, because that it is hard to forget about the past, can because feelings were too strong. No matter, the main thing – is born a thought to save love.
Instruction
1. Before thinking how to return the left love, properly think whether it is necessary for you. Why do you want to revive feelings? Perhaps, the restrained self-conceit or unwillingness to leave the past directs you. Think whether it is worth becoming for the sake of it unfortunate, living with the unloving and unloved person. Yes, once between you there was a tenderness, but it passed long ago. So release the become obsolete feeling to release the soul for new.
2. If you resolved that parting with the guy was a mistake, analyze why you could not keep cordial relations, in what a conflict essence. Perhaps, you with darling will be together again, maybe, he will return to you already tomorrow, but, without having considered a mistake, you easily repeat them in the future.
3. You do not hurry to run for the left man, shouting as strongly you love him. He, of course, will notice your efforts, but will not listen to entreaties. Be not humiliated. Give to the person time properly everything to consider, to solve, it needs you or not. If are necessary – it will come to you, and is not present – forget about it: all the same it will not be possible to construct the relations.
4. If passed many days from the moment of parting, and darling, apparently, is not going to come back, call it. Perhaps, he just thinks that he is not necessary to you. Men are beings proud, not capable to endure refusal and afraid to hear it. Take the initiative.
5. If the man does not want to be reconciled, do not force him it to do. Do not threaten with a jump from a balcony of the seventh floor and other terrible things. Believe, you will lose more, than will get: there is no show worse, than the humiliated woman. Think, unless such companion is necessary to your darling? Become strong, strong-willed, learn to make decisions and to control emotions. You will see, after a while he will look at you with other eyes. And, perhaps, will return.