"Nothing is eternal near the Moon …" - this beautiful and sad phrase belongs also to love too. How lovers wanted to think that their feelings will remain strong and sincere, it happens not always. For various reasons the love can die away. And already people who could not live without each other earlier get up before the choice: either to leave, or to try to revive the lost feeling. As it is possible to return love?
Instruction
1. Though say: "It is impossible to live only past!", but you need absolutely to remember the happy moments of the past now. As you only just got acquainted, felt the first, still muffled, shy feeling to each other as it got stronger, having turned into true love. You once were happy together. Think: all of you are the same. Let former beauty and ardency remained behind, but became wiser, is more skilled. Really you will not find forces and desire to overcome this crisis, to revive love?
2. Be whenever possible released (at least for a while) from a daily routine, household chores and efforts. Go to a trip or a campaign. Change of a situation with a lot of positive emotions – here that now is absolutely necessary for you. It is possible to try to go there where you were on a honeymoon, for example.
3. You are not sparing with praise, compliments. As they say: "The kind word and a cat is pleasant" what to speak about the loved one. Alas, reality such is that some spouses for some reason state each other claims much more often, and in absolutely trifling occasions, and consider to praise or thank for something optional. And has to be on the contrary. The atmosphere in family is kinder, more comfortable, the it is less than chances that the love will leave it.
4. Do not neglect intimate aspect of life at all. Of course, fondly to demand ardency of newlyweds from the spouses who already for many years are married. But also to treat sex as to something unimportant, it is impossible. As it almost inevitably leads to a distance of the husband and wife from each other. Try to recover memories of a honeymoon. Also do not hesitate to show relaxedness, imagination (reasonably, of course).
5. Some general interesting hobby, a hobby can sometimes help. Also you should not conduct life of hermits even if both the husband, and the wife – pronounced "homebodies". You go to concerts, performances more often. Receive guests and do not neglect invitations. "You are not aloof". Communication with other people will do you only good.
6. The wife should trying to change image cardinally. The original hairstyle, other hair color, a new make-up, the updated clothes, - all this can force the husband to look at the companion of life "other eyes", again will awaken in it the died-away interest. And there before revival of love – one step.