The woman can leave the beloved because of a set of the reasons, and in each case it for her is very offensive and painful. Even if she was an initiator of a gap. What to tell if they left at the initiative of the young man! But often, even feeling quite clear offense, pain, irritation, the girl cannot forget the person who was dear to it. She wants to return him. How it is better to make it?
Instruction
1. Do nothing in a temper, hastily. It is necessary to wait, calm down some time that the first were appeased, the strongest, emotions.
2. Then, having called to the aid common sense and judiciousness, objectively and impartially analyze for what reason there was a gap. Not just like that it occurred. Resist the clear and natural temptation "to spare" itself, having shifted all blame on the opposite side. Believe - only to yourself worse you will make it.
3. Do not follow on heels the former beloved at all, do not run after him! Needless to say, do not make rows, scandals, especially at strangers. From outside it makes just repellent show. Remember: there is no true love without respect. And that you were respected, you have to respect yourself.
4. Having sorted the behavior, having understood the made mistakes, you have to actually "make yourself anew". To become absolutely other person – the attractive, mysterious woman at the sight of whom your former man will test the whole scale of feelings. Also will surely become thoughtful, but whether he committed a blunder, having left you? Whether hurried with the decision?
5. For this purpose you have to become, first of all, benevolent, cheerful, learn to get positive emotions from life. Be stirred up, find to yourself an interesting hobby, change image. Do original hair, pick up other make-up, recolour hair, replace clothes, at last.
6. Try to change at least for a while scenery, to leave from there where everything reminds you of parting with darling. The best option – noncommittal holiday romance. As soon as you feel the charming woman, at you the self-assessment will grow, and it is absolutely necessary.
7. And here after all this try, kind of accidentally to meet your former beloved. And everything is farther already in your hands.