Parting of two people – painful and heartrending experience, and especially if participates in it the child. After a small break there can be thoughts that it was the mistake, and it is necessary to return the wife with the child.
Well consider the decision. Better once to leave, than to torment the wife and the child again and again. Think what directs your desire to return – love for the wife and the child or fear to be alone? Wait a little to understand themselves and when you are sure of the decision, come back to family.
Look once again at your relations. If the family collapses, between spouses there are unresolved problems and discontent. It is impossible to blame only one person therefore you need to work over yourself. Remember what was not pleasant in you to the wife, and try to improve. There is no sense to return to family if in a month the situation repeats.
Show that you improved
Begin to communicate with the spouse. If she does not want to see you, begin to come to short meetings with the child. It is not necessary to fall down them the head, especially at once if having rummaged in communication was big. Make gifts, it is possible to apologize to them for the acts, to promise to improve. Help the wife with a difficult situation. It concerns child care, questions with finance, to chores. Do it not at its request, and offer the help. Show that you want to be her defender and the assistant. Do not forget about the child – you bring to circles, buy toys, help with homeworks and just talk. Show to the spouse that you changed and are ready to change further for the sake of your general future. Remember what irritated her in you, and appear in other light. She sawed for small income? Change a job or find a side job. Did not you appreciate it and were inattentive? Give it compliments and gifts when you visit the child. Take all blame. When business reaches negotiations, tell that it was your fault, all of you understand and are ready to work on the relations. Accept all charges, apologize for last offenses, let to it know how you value it. Update your relations with the spouse. Be uttered, achieve truce and suggest to be chosen somewhere together. You need to be alone to recover romantic feelings. Invite her in favourite restaurant, fulfill all wishes of the spouse. Make unforgettable evening and win the heart of the wife again. You know her best of all therefore you will be able to achieve it.
After return
Do not make the same mistakes. When you are able to return the wife with the child, do not hark back to behavior. The second time she can not forgive you. Talk to the spouse, you appreciate her, give compliments and let's have a rest from house efforts. If you feel that again scandal is about to happen, peacefully suggest to discuss everything or you descend to the family psychoanalyst.