Seek to return or revive love also those who felt cooling and indifference of the partner, and those to whom it seems that something important and significant left their long-term settled relations. If the relations really initially were under construction on love, but not on physical inclination, benefit or convenience, then there are always chances to return it. It is worth changing habitual behavior model a little.
Instruction
1. Change the attitude towards yourself: if fall in love with yourself, then accept with all features. The love for the man, as well as love for the woman flashes when an object of feelings is full of love for itself (it is only not necessary to confuse it with self-admiration). At the subconscious level the people always reach for those who do not demand, do not wait for love, and itself is full this energy and therefore can present with it. In the long relations, as well as in a pursuit of former feelings, the person often loses himself, forgets that he wants/loves what his true desires / dreams. Revival of love begins with opening of this gift in itself.
2. Get rid of the negative which is saved up during the relations. It is necessary to understand that all negative is created by ourselves: we impose some requirements, claims, we create illusions concerning the half, and then painfully we are disappointed, we want to see the person any, only not it what he is. - remember as often as possible the pleasant, warm moments which you had alone. But do not emphasize a difference between what was, and what is now. You do not bring a negative, just try to feel all charm and originality of moments of love, trust and admiration with each other again. Revival of love comes from understanding as there is a lot of good you gave each other.
3. Refuse desire to change the partner, to adjust to your representations. Internally it is always perceived as the proof that you are not able to accept and fall in love with the person it what he is, besides this inevitable personal violence. Where there is a violence there lives neither the love for the woman, nor love for the man. Allow your partner most to come to the decision to change something, but do not impose it.