Often after the divorce the woman says that she was a good wife that tried to make everything that the husband was happy. And it all the same left to another moreover to such that it is not better than her, and even it is worse. Perhaps, the woman made mistakes which angered the husband, but he did not state it aloud?
For certain it is worth paying attention to things which women often consider usual and habitual, but they enrage men. And if these actions repeat often – the man will begin to look at the party.
Here or at all to turn off several examples of behavior of the women capable to anger the man from itself:
Lie and pretense
Psychologists say that men have "an intuition, as at animals". They instantly distinguish a lie, only not always speak about it aloud. It is not necessary to play a role and to pretend to be is to good will not bring.
It is the best of all to remain itself – men very much appreciate integrity and sincerity. Perhaps, some time they will allow to deceive themselves for some reason. But when will bother them – the storm is inevitable.
Hysterics and scenes of jealousy
All of us want that trusted us. That is respected us. And if do not trust – means consider weak, disgraceful, mean and so on. Unless the man can live with the woman who allocates him with such qualities?
To the person the respect, and especially respect of close people is important. And if he does not find it – will go to look for it still somewhere.
There is more: jealousy – sign that the woman does not respect herself time considers that to it can be changed. Means, it is necessary to take care first of all of the own life.Blackmail by sex
It is all the same that to bind a piece of meat on a string and to tease with it a dog. It too expression of disrespect for the man because intimate life is of great importance for it both in physical, and in the psychological plan.
Therefore sex has to be by mutual consent and inclination and should not turn into the manipulation tool.
Public criticism
Men do not take out criticism in the address at all and if it is criticized also in the presence of friends or the family – he can be upset or become angry very strongly.
And here if the wife speaks about it only good, he will try to correspond very much to the fact that speak about it.
However, it will not be pleasant to the woman too if it is negative to speak of her in the presence of people around.
Gossips and condemnation
Men are often irritated from women's chatter, from never-ending "chatter". It does not make for them any sense though for women it is the whole ritual filled with all values and hints it is some kind of game and avoiding a stress.
It is just necessary to consider that such talk when two girlfriends pick to pieces to the third, just "enrage" the man because he does not understand – as it is possible to be on friendly terms and condemn at the same time.
Also irritates men if the wife for hours stirs with the girlfriend by phone. Begins to seem to it that the girlfriend is more important for her, than he – with him she does not stir for hours. Therefore it is better to lead such discussions in its absence.