Men's jealousy — a consequence of vanity and the feeling of a sobstvennichestvo inherent in all men. Often the man himself does not understand what he is afraid more of: to lose the girlfriend or experiences, connected with the fact that she will abandon him. For this reason to live with the jealous man very not easy, his emotions are not constructive and only destroy the relations. How to help the half to get rid of "Othello's complex"?
Instruction
1. Do not give a reason! Modern society of a concept is "decently" and "indecently" treated in any form. For someone open flirtation at the husband is normal, someone does not hesitate of too revealing clothes. Analyze situations when you caused jealousy the man. Try to understand, it can be quite reasonable its claims? In that case, you should change a little the behavior or a manner to put on if, of course, you value the relations.
2. If in partners in life you got the jealous man, do not discuss with him the former partners at all. Even the story about harmless household habits can become the contention reason, as well as the fact that you still remember them. And it is simply tactless to remember more intimate things in relation to the present man. Try to behave so that he considered himself the first and only, at least in the emotional plan. You say more often that you and never loved anybody so strongly.
3. Communicate heart-to-heart. The men's jealousy differs from women's in the fact that men hold the doubts to the last inside. It is known that the person who is in moral tension continues to exaggerate himself. Therefore it is worth allowing darling to be uttered. Never wave away with men's experiences, you do not transfer a subject to something more important for you, but not for him.
4. Support hobbies of the husband. The jealousy appears from behind a low self-assessment, fear that you will exchange it for more successful rival. The man can realize himself either at work, or in favourite business. Therefore do not demand that he appeared from the hobbies for the sake of family affairs. Then you will be the only object occupying the jealous man's thoughts. Besides, suggest it to play sports, buy the subscription in gym. Physical exercises help to dump a negative, to get rid of a stress and to become, of course, more self-assured.