The relations of two people, unfortunately, not always comes to an end with love to death. People leave from each other, and after that in soul there is an emptiness. However life on it does not stop.
Instruction
1. If you stopped the relations with the person dear to you, you have to facilitate the state. For this purpose try to collect the thoughts and to write the letter to that whom decided to leave. In this letter you need to describe everything that you feel. If you became the initiator of a rupture of intimacy, explain the reasons of the leaving. At the end of the letter ask it to understand everything, to forgive and disperse forever. Most likely, after such message, the loved one will begin to look for meetings with you. Do not panic! Keep calm and goodwill. You really should explain everything each other that between you there is no offense left and misunderstanding. Make an appointment in several days in the crowded place in the afternoon and just talk about what disturbs you. Answer each other all questions, wish good luck and release the love.
2. Further the first days of parting which to endure will follow happens rather difficult. Remember that you should not remain alone with the thoughts. Try to spend all the free time with friends and people close to you. You do not stay at home, you go for a walk, at cinema, in theater, maybe, even in night club. Your thoughts have to be always occupied with something detached. If you have no desire someone to see and to have fun, just plunge into work, from it there will be a huge advantage both in psychological, and in the financial plan.
3. In order to avoid further communication with the person to which you, most likely, madly became attached replace the phone number, maybe, even the address or the place of work. Enter it in the black list on social networks. You should not contact it, otherwise any touching conversation and joint memoirs can return you to the last relations of which you so long wanted to get rid again. Also you remember that the pity to the person in this case is not appropriate.
4. If you after all are afraid that the former loved person will begin to take some actions for your return, you can take an extreme step. Ask the friends to tell him that you had new relations in which you are happy. Besides, if you really risky person, you actually can try to steep in new love. Such step will exclude reconciliation probability with the ex-boyfriend or the girl, and instead you can adjust the life and to become really happy person.