To put the end to the relations, it is necessary to have determination. However to some girls or happens it is really a pity for ex-boyfriends, or they just like to be someone's meaning of life, or there is not enough courage.
Instruction
1. If repeated courtings of the ex-boyfriend do not stir your blood any more as earlier, find a way to tell it about it. You do not keep it in suspense at all and do not torment, speaking "no" and at the same time giving hope a seductive look or a smile. Refuse it even if you very much want that you were carried on hands let also by the unloved man. Put yourself on its place and present all humiliation of situation.
2. In the refusal be unshakable, but also do not assume airs. Make an appointment in not noisy place (it is desirable, outside your and its housing) and it is polite, but intelligibly explain a cause of failure. It will be much easier to be made if you by the present moment already have a soulmate. Tell the ex-boyfriend or the husband that you respect your feelings and are grateful for those warm moments that were at you earlier, but now your heart is occupied by other person. And, as we know, you will not order to heart.
3. If you have nobody, and you want to have a rest some time from the relations, directly tell about it to the guy as it concerns it too. Ask it not to disturb you infinite calls, otherwise you should enter its number in "black list" and to remove all virtual ways of communication with it. Not superfluous will be to add that you want to devote this time to career development therefore you will be completely busy over the new project, etc.
4. The formulation "is widespread let's remain friends" which equally is not pleasant to either the former men, or ex-girlfriends. Only submit what it is to seem the beloved (-oh) and to communicate as earlier, only without any chance of mutual love. Consequences of such meetings can be various: from the beginning "old new" the relations before insults and hatred. If you are up to the end not sure whether you want to leave the ex-boyfriend, offer a delay for 2-3 months better not to be mistaken in feelings. And further – either begin anew, or leave forever.