Universal way to send away the guy it is polite under any circumstances – to competently interrupt communication. But as the girl should remain lovely and good in any situation, communication should be curtailed smoothly, so that at the guy an impression was gradually made that it not you, but he cannot keep up with you the conversation.
Instruction
1. To send away the guy politely follows: Never to show most and not to support in anything its initiative, without explaining any reasons and without giving him, thus, the chance to please you. Often used words such, as: "No", "I do not want", "It is not interesting", without any explanations are capable to ruin any initiative.
2. To answer his questions strictly within, set by it, without expanding them and without adding anything new to already told. It is the simple to answer that it gradually created feeling as though he about you knows everything. By the way, it is good if from the very beginning of your acquaintance it has a minimum of information on you and your hobbies – it will complicate to it a task at communication maintenance that will help you only.
3. Not to be interested in its personal qualities, opinion and other questions which do not have objective assessment and giving, thus, the chance to draw you into an unnecessary conversation.
4. Try to make his communication with you uncomfortable, however you do not overstep at the same time the politeness bound. How to achieve it? Use provocative questions and an estimated frame, putting it in various situations and expressing opinion on its actions. For example, the guy tells that him the colleague asked to help with the report for the chief, and it helped it. Your reaction: "So strange! Why do you allow to use yourself? For it nobody will respect you".
5. Show that you do not divide its value even if it not so. The eternal subject is for this purpose very fertile that in this world it is necessary to pay for everything. For example, it tells you that they with friends created group and they were invited to perform at some concert. Your reaction can be such: "Great, and how many will pay you for it?". On his explanations that the main thing is to prove to be at first, and then already to think of money, cynically notice: "All this, of course, is good … If you are a student. But whether it is better to be engaged in something standing?".
6. In general you reduce a conversation to money more often, meaning that the guy has to make good money. Men will complete a logical chain: "If the girl constantly says about what the man has to earn, then she is going to work hardly, so, I should work at least for two. Why to me it?". Of course, thus, you will create in his head the wrong image about yourself, but if you need to send away the guy politely whether then everything is equal what he will think of your inner world?