The heart has a will of its own, and sometimes the girl should send away the clever and lovely guy. At the same time there is a wish to make so that the refusal did not offend the young man, but also it is clear let know that the relations between you cannot be.
Instruction
1. Choose a suitable situation. It is unlikely it will be pleasant to the young man if you decide to declare that you do not want to meet him, at a noisy party where you just came. Also you should not speak about parting, being at someone from you in the apartment. It is the best of all to make it in the neutral place - during walk on the quiet park or sitting at a lonely table in cafe.
2. Talk to the guy. Quietly explain to him that it kind, lovely and very much is pleasant to you as the friend, but you have no ardent feelings. It is not necessary to tell the young man that he is a brunette, and you like blondes. Emphasize its advantages and tell that he by all means will meet the girl who will estimate it. Most likely, the young man all the same will be upset, however an occasion will hold on you offense at it.
3. You cannot be solved on a fair informal conversation – write the letter. Nobody will interrupt you, and you will be able to state everything that you think on points and to place points over "i".
4. If the young man only tries to flirt with you, tell that you have a husband or darling, and you do not intend to tear with him. Male solidarity after all exists therefore, most likely, the unlucky gentleman will apologize and will abandon you.
5. Between you is not present and there was nothing serious, but it seems to you that the guy prepares for resolute actions? Unostentatiously report to him about presence of the guy at you. On the question "how are you", choking with delight, tell that went out on dates with the gentleman who was pleasant to you. Such news will cool a heat of the unlucky beloved at once and at the same time not too will shake his self-assessment.
6. In another informal conversation tell the friend who jams to you in gentlemen that recently left love of all your life and you want to live freely now. You can also, having made an ominous look, to tell that you will never build the relations with men any more. If you convincingly speak, the young man will believe and will go to look for the ladylove to other place.