Not at all life without quarrels and misunderstanding is possible to live. Quite often the family teeters on the brink of a gap, and this side becomes more dangerous by that if the husband has a mistress. The deceived wives, as a rule, or declare at once a gap, or try to set by the ears the husband with the mistress. How to make so that the husband returned to family?
Instruction
1. First, the wife needs to cease to accuse of all the husband with his mistress and to look at a situation quietly. The mistress, as a rule – not the reason of the bad family relations, but only the investigation. Long ago it is known that the man leaves not "to someone", and "someone". Therefore at this stage it is necessary to realize that in the incident there is a share and your fault. It is necessary to improve the relations between you, and then the mistress will disappear by itself.
2. Further, it is necessary to understand precisely what you did not so. For example, often criticized the husband, swore on him, humiliated and "sawed". In such situation of nothing surprising that the man moved off in searches of the woman with whom he wanted to feel favourite and dear.
3. Improve the friendly relations with the husband whatever difficult this step seemed to you. Meanwhile it is only about friendship. Show to the husband that it is very pleasant to you to talk to him that you consider him the interesting person and are interested in his problems. Achieve that the husband sought to talk to you.
4. Become the attractive woman. Perhaps, you forgot about yourself as about the woman for years of a marriage. Unfortunately, it happens to many women. Work, life, children do not leave time for themselves, and the woman ceases to feel beautiful and attractive, ceases to care for herself. And in vain. Return yourself a fine image of the woman with whom your husband fell in love.
5. When at you with the husband friendly relations are established, and he will see that on you men on the street turn around, he will surely want to restore with you the love relations. And at this moment you have to present it with a choice – either you, or the mistress. Be afraid of nothing. If you reached this stage, then it will choose you. And in new life try not to make former mistakes, and then no mistresses will disturb your family center.