Can show an initiative in the relations and not only men have to. It is sometimes rather difficult to stronger sex to guess that is wanted by women, and because of this misunderstanding constantly there are conflicts.
1. Women do not need to be afraid to show an initiative in the relations. Most of men welcome activity of the weaker sex. Of course, the initiative implies not "jump" in a bed to the first comer, and sure positive communication in which the woman is not afraid to introduce the real ideas.
2. To show an initiative in the relations, it is necessary to become self-assured. It will be promoted very much by well-groomed appearance. The slender body, a beautiful hairstyle, an easy make-up, a smile - these arguments more often appear stronger than words, especially at an initial stage of the relations.
3. You should not hesitate to ask the man the questions concerning his relations with women. It will push him to a thought that he is considered as the potential partner. He will surely become interested in the initiative girl and will try to know her better.
4. The man has to invite in restaurant or cinema not necessarilynot necessarily. The woman can tell "So there is a wish to descend somewhere, invite me in cafe". Usually men easily agree if present them wishes thus, and do not consider that the woman tries to manipulate them.
5. It is worth showing an initiative consciously. And to be sure that everything surely will turn out and the man will not refuse. And if refuses, then it will not bring special sincere experiences.
6. Deciding to show in something an initiative, it is worth listening to himself. Whether causes this desire of rejection. Never it is necessary to work "with a great effort". The decision made against will seldom is right. Especially as in manifestation of an initiative the correct spirit is very important - on affirmative answer which cannot be, the girl is not sure of herself really.