It is the simplest to express the sympathy it is possible through a compliment. The main thing that it was appropriate: not too vulgar, suitable to a situation and, of course, unostentatious. Correctly given compliment, can win practically over any person and tune it into positive communication.
Instruction
1. Define for yourself what you want to give a compliment to the person interesting you. It optional have to be words. The look, a smile or something material, for example, flowers can be a compliment. Think over in advance under what circumstances and the compliment will be how exactly presented.
2. Be careful. Think whether your attention of that to which the compliment is intended will offend. The improper situation or bad mood of the person can be absolutely not by the way and interfere with the correct perception of a praise or compliment. Try to give a compliment not to the person, but his unique qualities which to you attracted. Such compliments are perceived much more softly and in case of unsuccessful attempt the probability to smooth a bad feeling much above.
3. At communication with the person you watch closely what qualities he marks out in himself and of what is proud. If you precisely catch details of what he considers in himself valuable, then such compliment will be invaluable in his eyes. Be sincerely. The compliment is in all sincerity much more valuable than the learned phrases. Your elect will note a difference between falseness and disinterested sincerity, in favor of sincerity. If you well know the person and consist with him in the friendly relations, then can give freedom of imagination and to creativity, it will be appreciated, as well as all unique in this world.
4. Perfect skill. The more often you will give compliments and to rehearse, the more qualitatively they will become. You will be able only having looked at the person to see what needs underlining and attention. The literacy of the speech and creation of offers is very important for a compliment. It is not necessary to try to decorate as much as possible it, thereby overloading with numerous turns and surplus of emotions. Individually picked up short compliment told sincerely will hook and will draw attention.
5. It is necessary to distinguish compliments of personal and business character. The compliment of business character has to be a little reserved and directed to business qualities of the person whereas personal, on the contrary, can be emotional and sensual.
6. Be ready to hear a reciprocal compliment and if that follows, accept it with advantage. Shortly thank the interlocutor, thereby having shown to him respect. You watch the mimicry. It is desirable to have a benevolent look during a compliment. Smile and be polite.