It is difficult to decide to leave the person with whom connects a lot of things. Can push to such responsible step: unsolvable peripetias in the relations, new feelings, household problems.
Important decision
To make the decision on parting - very responsible step. Before to destroy everything, it is necessary to analyze current situation. If the person very emotional and susceptible is also ready to disperse after each scandal with darling, then in this case it is necessary to wait until the storm ceases, to calm down and already to make the final decision. It is important to have understanding that the decision to leave can serve as a point in the relations, and the way back will not be. It is not necessary to check the second half in this way. Playing with feelings will not have a positive impact on the relations. You should not forget about the second chance if the person is dear and became really native, then it is possible to cross through himself and to try to begin everything anew.
Parting reasons
The reasons for parting can be absolutely different, some of them even seem absurd and ridiculous. Couples disperse: due to the lack of common interests, because of constants litter and unfaithfulness, because of discontent with appearance of the second half. If there are no more than forces to suffer, nothing and nobody not in forces to help to recover former feelings, then you should not torment yourself and those who are near. It is necessary to collect all thoughts in the head, to consider the further existence and to disperse once and for all.
If couple raises children, then this additional obstacle which does not allow to disperse from ease. Here it is already worth thinking not only of himself and the benefit, but also of children. Their mentality did not get stronger yet, and any shock, family discord can put them a trauma which will be reflected in all their life.
Ability to conduct dialogue
Dialogue - important aspect in the relations. It is necessary to be able to communicate, agree, find compromise solutions, to concede, listen and hear each other. Only in this case it is possible to reveal at early stages a crack in the relations that will give the chance it quickly to patch. All quarrels and offenses collect over time, the people who are once loving each other become the worst enemies, and all this happens because of absence understanding and communication. Once the partner tells that the decision to leave ripened. For certain, this fact for it will become a push to actions or at least to a serious conversation which can save the relations. It is possible to tell about the internal experiences to parents. On their eyes feelings arose, they have wide experience of joint life therefore can give a valuable advice, but the main decision nevertheless needs to be accepted independently.