Surprisingly, but adults and their growing-up children live in different measurements! And business here not that young men and girls of 15 summer age are very thoughtless and irresponsible as parents often say and therefore adults have a desire "to keep a tight rein" and control concerning children. Each parent plays in advance registered, "approved" role, without having an opportunity to depart from the scenario, is unclear whom and for what thought up.
Instruction
1. Let parents know that you need their councils and the help. It will promote establishment of a favorable situation in the house. It is not necessary to turn away from them. Be closer, more honest and try to please though slightly, but every day.
2. If parents treat you as to the small child, politely remind them that you already grew up and would wish to solve together with them problems which are connected with your life. Tell about the experiences, plans, they will understand that you mature and become reasonable.
3. Express understanding to the parents, to them gets at work and at home. Please them with the progress. It will help to come into contact and will adjust mutual understanding. You will be able to talk, understand and if it is necessary, then to forgive each other. Parents need to be appreciated!
4. Try to speak with parents normal language — it is better, than than to shout and clap doors. It is not necessary to be insolent, be quiet and balanced. It is necessary to accept the parents such what they are. Also it is not necessary to teach relatives ""as it is necessary to live"". Accepting and respecting views, habits, tastes of the parents, we accept and we respect ourselves. Only in this case it is possible to count on mutual understanding.