Certainly, communication in couple is necessary, without it the man and the woman cannot understand each other and get an idea of character, acts, thoughts of the soulmate. However the Argentina tango teaches us to even more important and valuable skill – as it is correct to be silent, feeling at the same time comfort and full mutual understanding.
During dance it is not accepted to conduct a conversation. It concerns even remarks and apologies. If you made something not so – enough look or short "Excuse". If during dance your partner is mistaken, you will be able to report about it to it later. It is not obligatory to interrupt for the sake of it dance at all if only this is not aboutthis is not aboutthis is not about the initial stages of training.
You remember: the more you speak, the more difficult for you to feel movements of the partner, to understand him, to come with him into contact which will allow to create beautiful and refined dance. Only having learned nonverbal communication and having begun to talk through embrace and touch, you will be able to improve the skills of dance. Moreover, it will give you very important ability – to understand the partner even in everyday life, to pay attention to language of his body and gestures, to guess his emotions. You will be able to be silent with each other, and at the same time to both of you will be easy and comfortable. Do not doubt, it will well affect the relations.
The Argentina tango will teach you and to one more thing to which couple needs to get used: all remarks should be stated after dance, but not during it, besides publicly it is impossible to lecture the partner. If you got used suit showdowns in the presence of other people, you should get rid of such habit urgently. It is one of secrets of successful partnership – both in dance, and in life. Besides, it is necessary to remember that "blamestorming session" demands from both partners of keenness, the aspirations to understand, abilities to choose expressions and to speak only about concrete shortcomings, but not about appearance or character of the person. It is necessary that the self-assessment of the person remained rather high and that in couple there were no excess offenses which can seriously spoil the relations.
The Argentina tango, at last, gives the chance to please the partner with pleasant words. Couples which live together long enough should think of that how often in their everyday life compliments sound. Quite often the people who lived together rather long time just forget about how it is important to praise each other, and cease to tell pleasant things. However it can offend, sometimes there is an impression that the partner just ceased to appreciate the soulmate or it is even simple to pay attention to her merits. After each dance you learn to thank the partner. For this purpose you will be able to use not banal thanks, but a good compliment. Very pleasantly happens to hear: "You remarkably dance", "You have an amazing talent", "It was very pleasant to me". Having transferred a habit to pay compliments in everyday life, you will soon notice that the relations in couple began to be under construction better.