Differences of mood are peculiar to girls. Young people sometimes do not manage to notice how joy passes into chagrin or offense. But at a conversation ""face to face"" it is quite possible ""to catch"" the similar moment. And if communication happens at distance, for example, by phone, then to make it very difficult.
1. If there is a strong wish to call the girl, but you do not know about what with her to speak, then think up the reason. For example, ask it council for an occasion of the choice of a disk with the movie or music. Only such small cunning has to be plausible. It will help you to begin to communicate. First, rules of elementary politeness demand not to disturb people ""just like that"". Secondly, you will know what to tell, so, will avoid silence.
2. Be interested in the interlocutor. Ask her about the childhood, students, work, hobbies, etc. So you obtain information on it and will be able to support an interesting subject. Besides, often it is pleasant to girls when to their persons show a lot of attention.
3. Stock up with patience. Most of girls madly like to stir by phone. And they can do for hours. And if you do not want to finish a conversation with offense, then it is necessary to listen to the woman. Think that when she easy introduces the ideas, begins to trust you and kindly to treat. If desired to continue the relations, these a lot of things mean. Besides, you will also manage to understand, are how located to the person.
4. Avoid inappropriate jokes and rough expressions. Understand, you talk not to the male friend with whom it is possible not to hesitate of any phrases. The young person can quite take offense at some turns and, it is possible that there will be rights. Of course, not trite humour will be to the place. Only do not allow silly snickers without all on that an occasion, otherwise you will make an impression, at least, of the strange personality.