Having decided to return the former beloved, you can try to catch him on "anchor". In psychology this term designates sign which are associated with a certain person. It can be a smell, gesture, action, a subject, etc. During joint life of such catches collects quite a lot, and they continue to work also after a gap.
Instruction
1. Organize a "casual" meeting. Most often after parting the people begin to avoid places where were happy with the half. And it is correct. You need to have a rest from each other, to think. But after a while your former will begin to visit favourite cafes and other vacation spots. Happen upon him there. Naturally, try to be on the ball – cheerful, beautiful and cheerful. Lovely greet, and act on circumstances further: if he wants to communicate – communicate, is not present – do not impose the society. The next meeting can be planned in other place and not earlier than in a week. If he, of course, does not call you earlier.
2. Being going to meet the ex-spouse, use his favourite perfume. Aromas are extremely important for the relations – men and women subconsciously choose partners in a smell. Familiar spirits will force the former beloved to think constantly of you even if he also does not want it. As a catch it is possible to use jewelry, clothes and many other things. The main thing – that this thing was associated at the man only with you. At a conversation focus attention of the ex-husband on "anchor" – carelessly twist it, play.
3. Use sexual gestures. Periodically make those actions which your ex-beloved observed during peak of the relations: brush the hair, tint lips, do up hair, etc. These gestures have to look quite at ease. Having seen the interested look, "throw a rod": ask whether he saw the new movie or a performance, and tell that you are going for it to descend.
4. In breaks between meetings occasionally send the ex-spouse of SMS. Congratulate it on victories of favorite team, birthdays, holidays. If he answers dry "thanks" - are silent. And once write how you miss it, and be gone for a week. If you managed to stir up feelings of the ex-husband, he will find you.