The relations with the married man seldom are unambiguous. Very often they happen inadvertently, and in certain cases the girl falls in love, and only then learns that her elect is not free. However to stop being the mistress not so difficult if you look at a situation under other corner.
1. Glance in the future and try to present what waits for you in several years if your with marriednovel man does not stop. Whether organizes you a supporting role, celebrations alone and absence a number of darling? Even if now you are ready to reconcile to such state of affairs, in the future you for certain would wish for yourself the best destiny.
2. Learn to respect and to really love itself. Realize really that you are worthy roles of the favourite and only woman. Do not forget that time does not stand still, and life passes by you. The woman assured and appreciating herself will never be content with a supporting role. Believe in yourself and begin to build the full-fledged relations.
3. Go to the sea or to an excursion tour. It is better to go one or to the companies of the girlfriend. Use this time to distract and think whether so you need your present relations. Be open for light easy holiday romances which will allow you to forget your married lover.
4. Take the plunge to a rupture of the first. In this case you will not suffer also from the fact that the man threw you. Moreover, subsequently you will be proud for certain of the force and courage. Tell the lover that you stop all communication with it. Tear off all contacts, exclude casual meetings, remove its number from memory of phone. It is quite possible that at the beginning of a way it is necessary to you hardly. However gradually you will begin to appreciate the new status.