Yes, it happens, and yours, yesterday still the most loved one in the world became for you "former" today. Of course, it is very sick and it seems to you that it is simply impossible to endure it. Your love for it is so strong that you do not imagine how now to live. Everything reminds you of it, everywhere to you its voice seems. But, stop! You understand that sooner or later you need to stop loving the person former, native once who for you became now a stranger therefore it is necessary to do something for this purpose.
Instruction
1. If to remember legends and great novels where the rejected women longed for this occasion to death, then practically all of them the rest of life were locked up, pouring over tears over a portrait or some part of clothes of the beloved, stopping any contacts with the outside world. No, it at all not for you, so it is necessary to arrive exactly on the contrary!
2. If you decided to throw it as there are no forces any more to trust its infinite promises and to forgive constant unfaithfulness, then it is even easier – for this purpose you have to tell yourself firm "Enough!" and to stop with it any communication. It will be simpler to be made if you try to forget it.
3. For a start collect everything that can remind you of it, and ruthlessly feed it to a garbage can. Erase all photos in the computer where you together. Of course, from memory to erase memoirs so easily it will not turn out, but at least forbid themselves to stay in the days, touching all happy moments where you were still together in the head.
4. Unless you have nothing to be engaged, unless you have no other matters and you have no place to have a good time? Here also occupy yourself, load to the maximum. Now you had time for yourself, darling. You resemble in gym or in the yoga-center, visit day spa. Complete a course of cosmetic procedures after which you will feel, looked younger, got prettier and had a rest. You will begin to be pleasant to yourself, and, so and will begin to draw attention of the men surrounding you.
5. If so there is a wish to be uttered, then begin to keep a diary or be cried to the close girlfriend. Women therefore have stresses easier that are able to be uttered and share them. The real girlfriend will always be on your party and will always support you in your grief.
6. Understand that our life is sufficient it is short to spend it for worthless sufferings or attempts to re-educate other person. Do not linger – begin to look after a new object of the attachment and tell being mental "Thanks", that you gained life experience and will be able to consider now the last mistakes which were made with it.