Love, especially at young age when people only begin to live and study on the mistakes, quite often comes to an end not so well as it would be desirable. Girls as more emotional beings, endure break in relations heavier, than boys. And almost each girl asks a question once how to stop loving the boy.
Instruction
1. To stop loving the boy, the first that should be made is to want to stop loving him. Surprisingly, but many girls suffer from unfortunate love, at heart wishing it. The image of the girl suffering from the broken heart was extremely attractive for youth at all times, and many little girls at all not against to try this role. If the girl wants to see herself with the broken heart too, then it is possible to suffer with all the heart day - another, and then to tell itself "stop". It is necessary to understand that sad and depression deprives life of a set of paints.
2. You look at a gap with optimism. You should not think that your boy was the best, and it you in the life will not meet another. Tell yourself that your gap occurred only in order that you met even more worthy young man.
3. Occupy yourself with some fascinating occupation. Now your brain is occupied with what constantly ""mills"" details of your relations and your gap. If not to switch it to something else, it can work in such mode long time. The brain needs to be distracted from this fascinating subject. Study, as a rule, does not give desirable effect therefore you should think up some hobby. The necessary condition – a hobby has to be fascinating that pulled you to them to be engaged. Set a goal, - for example, to learn to play the guitar. Only present what furor you will create among the schoolmates when you become a guitarist, and it is even better – the participant of some band. Or think up the option. When you find the purpose which really captures you, make to yourself the dense lesson schedule. In several weeks you also will forget to think of the former boy.
4. One more important rule – do not discuss the feelings and the ex-boyfriend with girlfriends, otherwise to get rid of it it will be problematic. Tell the acquaintance that you stopped loving him, and you do not want to say on this subject any more. Following these simple rules, you quickly stop loving the former young man.