Men, especially not really adult, very much like to ego-trip at the expense of others. It can be not only the girlfriend, friends, relatives, but also even absolutely strangers. Not to bring the conflict to a limit, it is necessary to stop the young man in time, to distract it, to switch attention to another.
Instruction
1. Men as children. And if it seems to them that someone trod on their corns or doubted brutality, it demands an immediate blamestorming session. But most likely, the person did not want to offend, just incorrectly said. Softly stop the partner. Tell that to shout and sort out the relations and furthermore, to be spoiling for a fight, is not necessary to the adult worthy person. Suggest not to pay attention to the statements of foreign persons. Assure it that it the best, and all the rest - insignificant talks of envious persons. Men very much love flattery and will surely distract from an unpleasant subject.
2. If the guy dares to raise the voice on relatives - mother, the father, sisters and brothers, surely stop it. To make it it is difficult because it is necessary to break the model of relationship formed in family. But if not to make it, the man will switch also to you subsequently. Therefore try to reconcile darling with relatives. Tell that even if they are wrong, all of them equally remain close people. Also you should not spoil with them the relations. If the conflict is about to happen, and dialogue it is impossible, just disperse on different rooms and give each other time to cool down. Having calmed down, arrange truce.
3. When the guy makes actions which are not pleasant to you, or you are not ready to them yet, constructive dialogue will help to resolve a situation. You should not shout and writhe in hysterics. It will only anger the partner. Quietly explain to him why you are not ready to execute its wishes now. Give reasonable arguments. If the person respects your feelings, he surely to you will listen. And if all the same insists on the, think whether such relations where it is necessary to be constantly under oppression are necessary to you.
4. Anyway, if the young man at you begins to get involved in the conflict with people around, do not come over to the their side. It can strongly offend the partner. Just try to settle everything peacefully. Tell that you completely support darling, but against aggression. Convince that dialogue - the best way of the solution of problems. So gradually your guy will stop thinking that the whole world is incited against it. And the conflicts will resolve by itself.