When the arrow of the cupid hits the mark, thoughts of darling haunt, the fingers are all thumbs, there is only a wish to dream and though a little to muffle the concerning heart beat waiting for a meeting. But whether it is possible to learn not to think of darling if the feeling is not mutual? Let's consider both situations.
Instruction
1. It is quite natural to think of darling. Of these thoughts act on some in the form of force which moves lovers not only on overthrow of mountains, but also on preparation for important meetings, drawing up reports and other daily work. But most of people are not capable to get down to business if their thoughts are occupied absolutely by another. Make to yourself the list and begin with pleasant point. You will also not notice how you will go to work with the head. Advantage of it very big. You are inspired therefore now it is much easier to execute a lot of things: sensation of fear, diffidence become dull or disappear at all. Result: you not only execute all affairs in time, but also will pass away time of a desired meeting with darling.
2. When there is no reciprocity, perhaps, the best medicine for one-way love – time. But you are able to help himself to distract from unnecessary thoughts. First, try to forgive the one who never will be with you any more. Make so that nothing reminded you of this person: you will throw out clothes or even gifts, photos, notes, a toothbrush, etc. Ask relatives not to remind you of he (she) under no circumstances. Do not cling to the "anchors" left your past: you do not go to your favourite cafes, remove "your" melodies and movies, replace perfume which so was pleasant to he (she).
3. As well as in the first case, work will be for you during this difficult period of time help. But do not forget that now you have a lot of time on private life. Change something in appearance or clothes, buy some new bagatelle to the house even if unnecessary, and make it a symbol of your new life. When gloomy thoughts come to your mindyour mind again, look at this subject and remember that the page is already turned.
4. Be not satisfied with what has already been achieved. Now positive emotions are simply necessary for you. Define what gives you small joy, and afford it at least once in a week. Be engaged in physical activity more, find a new hobby and do not forget to communicate. If your thoughts are occupied with something fresh that really interests you, then to "old" reflections just there will be no place.