The relations are different. Easy whiff of mistrust can destroy some, others will pass through everything tests, having become even stronger. Of course, many want their relations to remind the second option, but for this purpose it is necessary to use the considerable efforts.
Instruction
1. Find interesting to you two occupation. Talk to the partner, learn, than he likes to be engaged in off-duty time. For example, you always dreamed to learn to ride a snowboard or to play billiards. If the same is wanted also by your beloved / beloved, then it is worth being engaged in it together. Choose time which will be best of all to be suitable for your general hobby. It great brings together and does the relations stronger.
2. Stop to hope that your partner can be re-educated. Try to find in lines which not really are pleasant to you, something good. Understand that it is better to enjoy what you have, but not to spoil each other mood on trifles. If you decided to be with the person, then be with him, but not with that ideal which you to yourself thought up.
3. Get rid of illusions. Look in a face to the relations. Try to strengthen all their advantages and reduce amount of weaknesses. The ideal relations do not happen. However it is possible to try to approach them.
4. Talk to darling more. Let a talk behind a tea cup after a dinner or before going to bed will become your joint habit. Tell the partner everything that happened to you for the last day, tell about the dreams, hopes, fears. The more you will talk, the you will become closer each other.
5. Do not avoid the solution of the arising problems and the conflicts. As soon as you felt that something is not pleasant to you in behavior of darling, report about it to it. It is not necessary to shout, arrange hysterics or to offend the partner. On the contrary, the you will be kinder, the information will be apprehended more effectively. But it is necessary to consider, as the partner at any time can state you the claims. In that case it is necessary to listen attentively to him and to consider each word. Having analyzed the received remarks, correct the behavior.