And official registration of marriage creation of family does not come to an end with a campaign in a registry office but only begins. Cohabitation is a daily constructive labor in which both parties take part. The cementing seven feelings is not the mutual passion of spouses, but love, trust, care about each other. To strengthen the relations and to start a strong and close-knit family which no barriers are terrible it is possible in several ways.
Instruction
1. Learn to accept each other such with what you are and to appreciate those qualities for which you fell in love with the partner. When it is not necessary to do attempts of re-education and to announce the desire to eradicate shortcomings which you see in the spouse. If something irritates you, try to talk and explain why it occurs. The person loving and respecting you, will try to improve, it is only not necessary to use for this purpose aggression and blackmail.
2. Learn to listen to each other and become the real support to the spouse. Its problems have to concern you sincerely and interest him put. Their joint discussion and decision-making does you by the real accomplices in the best sense of this word. There should not be problems, separate of family, all of them are your general.
3. Family, your house has to become that place where there is always a wish to return where will always listen to you, will sympathize and will give advice. It has to become the island of stability, house heat and a cosiness on which all everyday troubles and adversities are forgotten and recede.
4. Do not try to strengthen family the child's birth if the relations cracked, it is your marriage hardly will save. But here for those who love each other the birth of the child can become that factor which will even stronger rally spouses, will become an additional reason for manifestation of care and tenderness. The love to each other and to the children, care of the general family wellbeing allows to open to a second wind in the relations between the husband and the wife.
5. With the birth of children the family has own traditions and family holidays which define way of each specific family and become for each her member indispensable attribute of a home. Understanding of it does strong, sure and successful both parents and happy their children.