The person – a being the social, and forced loneliness is perceived by many as something unnatural. Personal acquaintances and public relations not only help to solve many vital problems, but also improve quality of life, do it more saturated and bright. In only where to take these acquaintances if with childhood friends the contacts are already lost, and new - were not given up new interesting people?
Instruction
1. As it was sung in one known cartoon, "It is no secret that friends do not grow in a kitchen garden". Really, constantly staying at home or plying only along a route work - the house-TV, you will not get friends. To strike up new acquaintances and to support them is the whole art which requires certain efforts and attention. And somehow to move off dead center, do for a start such unpretentious exercise: take the big sheet of paper, a pencil and write out all the already existing contacts. And then analyze them.
2. Even the most closed person has though some circle of contacts: colleagues, relatives, acquaintances, neighbors in an entrance. Consider attentively the communications and define what they are qualities and in what sphere you lack contacts. Whether gets to you friends for informal communication whether useful acquaintances for career or business are necessary, whether there are problems with private life – your scheme clearly will show you in what direction to move.
3. Having defined what sort new acquaintances are required for you, you pass to their creation. The most important principle of acquisition of friends is that it is necessary to look for them among adherents. There is no best way to strike up new acquaintances, than collaboration over common cause. If you have a hobby, try to find club or society, related. For certain among its participants you will find many people, interesting to yourself.
4. Begin to attend public actions which are interesting and close to you. Concerts, performances, creative meetings, sports meets, collective voluntary public works. The main thing that this activity was interesting to you in itself. Then the people who are engaged in the same things will be pleasant and interesting to you. And for certain you will have a set of the general subjects for a talk.
5. If you seek to get acquaintances in the sphere of the professional activity, begin to show active interest in its state and development. Attend business meetings and conferences, participate in round tables, enter into a correspondence to authors of the ideas interesting to you or professional works. At visit of any business collective action try to learn and remember as the bigger number of its participants is possible. Exchange with them views, short phrases, ask business cards with a contact information and offer the.
6. If you do not know how to begin to communicate with the stranger, just try for a start to greet him and to exchange noncommittal remarks. Ask him professional opinion on some question, tell something pleasant. Usually people in the majority willingly make contact. The most important, you remember that any business is especially difficult only for the first time. Thus, having once overcome the shyness and having begun to communicate, you are very quickly convinced that in it there is nothing especially difficult, and a large number of attempts will help to develop the acquaintance setting tactics which is the most suitable for you.