Quite often the person begins to struggle with the feelings overwhelming him, without knowing where to move. Because of it precious time is wasted, the chance to achieve heart of darling and to construct with it the relations is missed. It is necessary to get it together and to work judiciously.
Instruction
1. Admit to yourself that you really fell in love with a certain person or you have to him any other feelings. You should not worry that, perhaps, you have just a stress or strange inclination. It is better to accept a situation and to think how you will act further.
2. Sort out your feelings. Try to understand for what you liked the person or that in him, for example, causes in you irritation. Perhaps, he is that whom you always looked for, or made something what you cannot reconcile to. If you define the cause of feelings, it will be easier for you to cope with them.
3. Communicate to the person and make to him an avowal of sentiments, previously having developed the plan of what you will speak about. You should not hold them in yourself or just to hesitate of their manifestation. From this conversation it will become much easier for you.
4. Try to state the feelings in a different way. For example, call the person if you cannot personally meet. Besides, the lack of need for visual contact will give you confidence. Also you can write the message on the sheet of paper and send by mail or express at correspondence on the Internet. But it is necessary to remember that the best results are yielded by a man-to-man talk especially as in a rush of emotions of people can hang up and not listen to the end of you or just not respond to letters.
5. Try to put the feelings stupefying you on the right track. It is considered that at such moments of people can show excellent results in creativity. Try to draw or write verses. It is possible to be engaged in any business, and feelings at you at heart will become a fine motivator for this purpose.
6. Try to obtain to be near the person if you are tormented by feeling of love. Make so that the love became mutual. Invite the elect or the darling to an appointment, make a romantic surprise, take attention and care, and finally you will be able to achieve the desirable.