Household rudeness - the phenomenon incredibly widespread in Russia. For some reason many spouses consider that visibility of love needs to be created only in the presence of strangers, and alone it is possible to humiliate and in every possible way to offend the partner.
Instruction
1. Most often women suffer from household rudeness. Husbands find it possible to break on them rage for the failures at work, for disrespect of friends and even for loss of favorite team. Most often such behavior goes from the childhood, the child saw how the father communicates with mother, and adopted this manner. To struggle with rudeness of the spouse rather difficult, but it is quite real.
2. The first that the woman whose husband dares to be rude - accurately to put him into place has to make. To tell firmly that you do not allow such attitude towards yourself. That you will talk to the husband only if he treats with respect you. The muck should not cry or shout in reply at all. The house boor tries to obtain emotional reaction, he waits for it and got used to it. Break templates, behave as the adult reasonable person. Show that you are higher than squabbles. Only this way it is possible to put the raged spouse into place.
3. If the boor does not calm down and continues to offend - leave for a while the room. Let it will have time to think, comprehend your words. Perhaps, he will come to a conclusion that he does not like to live with the strong woman, and will want to find the weak partner who will resignedly take down all its mockeries. But most likely, if the man loves you, and rudeness for it - not a usual state, but accident, he will draw the correct conclusions. Also will begin to splash out the rage in the gym, but not on the beloved.
4. If the rudeness developed into house terror - do not remain with such person. To change it it will hardly turn out. And not the fact that having become better, it will not return to a former manner of behavior in family from time to time. It is especially dangerous if in the house children who absorb as a sponge everything told and made parents. Therefore find forces to finish these relations and to go to search of the worthy partner who will appreciate and respect you.