In life of most of women competitors appear sooner or later. It can be as the real mistress with whom the man already changed and the potential competitor – the girl to whom he shows an affection. Each woman chooses own solution of this problem – to put hands and to wait or fight for the man.
Not to make scandal
Men do not take out female tears and scandals are an axiom. Of course, he will want to go there where he is met with a smile, but not with a mute reproach on a face. Even if it is very difficult, it is necessary to try to overcome itself and to return ease which was at the very beginning of the novel to the relations. To meet the husband in the cozy apartment, to prepare his favourite dish, to suggest to make massage after the unlucky working day – these, apparently, trifles actually will allow to cause in it desire always to come back home. It is possible to present the man with a choice only when there is an absolute confidence in the victory.
To focus attention on the competitor's shortcomings
It is necessary to stay the detective and the actress in one person. It is necessary to get acquainted with the competitor. If the girl is not accepted in a usual circle of contacts, it is possible to get acquainted with her in absentia. Thanks to social networks it is practically possible to learn about the person everything. Having studied the girl's page, we reveal her weaknesses.
Example: her playlist consists only of pop songs of thoughtless contents. In a conversation with the husband it is possible to make a reservation accidentally that such music is listened by the juvenile little girls who are not burdened by intelligence. It is possible to deride anything - a manner to talk, clothes style, inability to prepare, education, love for reading, or on the contrary – full unwillingness to read. The main thing not to deride the specific girl, and to present any situation hypothetically.
To take care of the own life
"The man is visual" - a hackneyed phrase which, nevertheless, completely reflects reality. Any man does not want to see near himself not well-groomed woman. The new hairstyle, beautiful clothes, smooth skin not only will help to attract attention men, but also considerably will raise the woman's self-assessment. It is possible to register in yoga, in dances, in a language course. The main thing is to find to itself fascinating occupation which will help to distract from thoughts of the competitor (existing or potential). And the man will understand that he, appears, and without him can be interesting to his woman.
To cause jealousy
Here the main thing not to go too far. It is possible to poflirtovat with somebody in the face of the man that he understood that his woman has success. However, it is possible to do it only if interest from other men is. The girl who frankly fishes for compliments and in every way tries to draw attention, looks very miserable. So the effect can be opposite. Anyway there will be several questions which will remain after the man returns to family. And whether the woman will be able to forgive him? Whether the man who needs to be won is necessary to her? And whether such situation in the future will repeat?....