For some women the conquest of heart of the married man is a peculiar game in rivalry. The forbidden fruit, is as they say sweet. But sometimes the status of the mistress begins to weigh. Understanding comes that your partner not just the purpose for self-affirmation, and that person who is expensive and necessary for you. How to win it? Many married men, despite all disorders of family life, are afraid of cardinal changes.
Instruction
1. Learn about his spouse as much as possible. Her preferences, tastes. Study strengths of the competitor: what attracts your elect in the spouse and that irritates. Adopt all this knowledge.
2. Show, to the man what value he has for you. That you value it, really love it. Appear before it in the best light. The behavior, acts, prove that life with you is much more harmonious and more pleasant, than with his spouse. Let him constantly admire you, reaches for you.
3. The man has to trust you. Trust – the most important in the developing relations. He has to know that it always has a person who will support him not only the correct council, but also business. What with you is quiet and easy for it. Other troubles and problems can disappear if there are a reliable back and a support.
4. Use conflict situations in his family. All is fair in love and war. Let the man know that there is he with you, it would not occur. That you always and in everything understand and support him.
5. Do not make it a row of jealousy, quarrels concerning insufficient attention to your person at all. Be more tolerant. If he spent days off with the family or, busy, did not come to you on the appointed day, do not show the disappointment and discontent. Take the understanding and careful form.
6. Do not look for meetings with his spouse and do not give the mystery of your relations. The next scandal in family of the man can negatively affect your relations with it.
7. You do not press on the man. Remember that to him not less yours it is heavy from understanding of the developed love triangle which to break off not easy. Be consecutive in the acts. Resolute actions to anything, but also you should not get used to the status of the secret mistress. Slowly push it to a decisive act. It is very difficult to it to change sharply something in the life.